I cannot stress enough that when you are dealing with a Gemini, you are dealing with two people. This duality affects everyone born under this sign of the zodiac. So to know if a Gemini man has feelings for you or if he is in love is extremely difficult. Because one moment he will throw himself at you and the next moment he will ignore you as if he doesn’t know you. This can be discouraging and deceptive for any woman. But that doesn’t mean you should give up on the idea of dating him. You just need to know a few things about his personality and his behaviour in love.
Let me tell you 9 signs that will tell you if a Gemini man is in love with you. He may be elusive, but Gemini men share certain traits in love that you should know to understand their feelings.
1. A Gemini man in love will act like a teenager in love.
Gemini men are childish. They like to have fun and that is one of the reasons why people like to have them around. So when they are in the company of a woman they are attracted to or have feelings for, they naturally become even more immature. He might blush when you talk to him or compliment him. He will make jokes to make you laugh, or at least smile. It won’t be hard to see his awkwardness, which is characteristic of teenagers in love. It will be refreshing to get this kind of reaction from a man.
2. he will open up to you
Geminis don’t believe in talking too much about serious, catastrophic or boring things. Things like what’s going on in their lives. But like all people, they expect the people they love to understand. If he has feelings for you, the Gemini man will open up. He will talk about his past, his family and his feelings. It will not be easy or conventional. The only astrological signs that are even less conventional than the Gemini man are the Aquarius and Sagittarius men. But if you are careful, you will notice the difference. The things he will tell you very few people have heard. It is a sign that he trusts you and it means that you mean a lot to him.
3. he will want to see you often
Is he flirting with you and trying to seduce you? Shouldn’t you expect an explicit gesture from him? Well, he is not the typical Gemini man…. He will expect you to understand for yourself that he likes you and has certain hopes. You will notice his interest if he wants to talk to you all the time. If he wants to see you often. He wants to be your first priority. He will plan outings with you. Find things you can do together.
4. he will be attentive with you
No man, no matter how nice, will have trouble giving him what he wants. For when the Gemini man is interested in you, he gives more than he receives. He will bring you flowers and chocolates. Will try to cheer you up when you are upset. He makes jokes at his own expense just to make you smile. He will always be there for you. And he will make sure you know that all you have to do is call him to come over. This availability and attention will increase tenfold when he falls in love with a woman.
5. He will always be there for you
He cannot spend time without the woman he is secretly in love with. Especially if he knows that you are in need. For example, if you are sick, he will be the first to come to you, maybe with a small gift or something to cheer you up. He will send you a text message to let you know how you are. And he will visit you as soon as possible. Even if you are feeling better, he will text or call you to see how you are doing. Don’t be surprised if you receive a text message from him asking you questions about your day. If he knows you attended an important meeting, he will ask you how it went. If you were at a party, he will want to know all the details. His excessive need to always know what is going on with you is one way of knowing that a Gemini man loves you.
6. He will introduce you to his friends
There are levels at which a Gemini man separates people in his life. The two main categories are friends and family. Family first, then friends. So if he is interested in a woman, he will introduce her to his friends. He will invite you to go out with them or go to a party together. It is a sign that he cares about you. But if he introduces you to his family, that is the next level up. He only introduces a woman to his family if he has really fallen in love with her. Are you ready for that kind of commitment?
7. He is always fun to be with….
He doesn’t always pretend to be in love. The Gemini man will not leave a single moment of boredom when you are with him. If he wants a woman, he knows she has to be happy with him. The Gemini man wants you to feel that being with him brings you happiness. And if you look back now, you will find that you have had some of your best moments with him. Every time you spend time together, it is unforgettable. That’s how he behaves in love, but don’t think he’s like that with everyone.
8. is always in a good mood when you are around.
The man born under the zodiac sign of Gemini is a concentrate of excitement and joy. But he also has his phases of calm and restraint. But not when you are around. You feed his fire and suddenly he jumps up and down. Suddenly he’s a chatterbox. He talks to everyone around him and doesn’t care what they think of him. If he is with you in a place where he doesn’t know anyone, he will be very charming. Even the most boring conversations cannot reach him when you are there. And it is all about impressing you for him.
9. A Gemini man who is interested and serious will admit his feelings for you.
The Gemini man is not the most outspoken lover. But if he’s sure of his feelings, it’s worth the risk for him to come out of the closet. So chances are good that he will come to you and declare his feelings of love. He won’t say it openly, but he might slip a confession into a subtle or unexpected conversation.